Two things have really been on my mind the last couple days. One is Jealousy. Jealousy is an evil thing. Why do some people have to be mean and degrade you to make themselves feel worthy. Are they so insecure around you that they have to turn everything into a competition. As someone just told me yesterday, that just means they're jealous of you and they find you worthy to be jealous of. Don't get angry, just pity them! If you say you got an A they got an A+, if your paycheck was $200 theres was $201?? All I have to say is GROW UP. Be your own person!
The jealous are troublesome to others, but a torment to themselves.
Today I thought about deleting my myspace. Why you may ask? Because people are childish! I have a friend well (ex-friend) that needs to GROW UP! About 3 years ago she came down from another state to visit. Me and my cousin went to see her. Then about a month later she came down again. She called because she wanted us once again to make the 30 mile trip to go see her. I had a test at school that I could not miss and my cousins son was in the hospital. So needless to say we were unable to make it down there. We told her why? So you know what happened? She deleted us from all social networking sites and blocked us, won't accept our calls or have anything to do with us? The crazy thing is she is almost 30 years old. Not only that but she could have came to marshall and saw us? Did she? NOPE. Did anyone else she is friends with make the trip one month previous to see her? NOPE. Is she still friends with all them on facebook, myspace and son on? YEP. I have tried numerous times in the last 3 years to contact her and she blocks me and marks me as spam. What is her problem?? I don't get it?
When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.
So I also have this other friend..Well she used to be my best friend, until she started griping at me and complaining non-stop that I never came to see her. She lived 3 blocks or so from my house. At that time I had just started school and I had an over abundance of homework. I got up went to school, came home and did homework until bed. I didn't have time to go see her. And if I did have a couple spare hours I sure didn't want to go over to her house and listen to her 3 kids cry and whine nonstop and hear her gripe at me cause I never come to see her. So after about a year of not speaking to her (she moved away), I decided to send her a message on myspace. Telling her I was sorry and I wanted to put it past us. I don't want any hard feelings. She has been online but hasn't responded to my message. And all her family deleted me and blocked me?? What is with people? Deleting people, blocking, spaming you, complaining because they're not in your top friends? Is that what life is about?
Irritability is immaturity of character. If you are subject to being cross and unpleasant with others for no apparent reason, you need to come face-to-face with the fact that you are thinking too much of yourself. After all, your feelings are not the most important things in this world.
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